Christy Rutherford

HEAL with CHRISTY RUTHERFORD

When your soul is calling you to higher, you need to let go of the trauma that drove you to achieve high levels of success.

Who do Superheroes call when they are in trouble?

I work with ultra-high net worth individuals who are dissatisfied with their quality of life despite having achieved significant success.

I assist you with getting back the things that the pursuit of success cost you, that money can't buy.

Unlike traditional therapy, which is surface-level, I go deeper using neuroscience, mindfulness, spirituality, metaphysics, and holistic healing to assist you with releasing stored trauma, healing mentally and physically, restoring family relationships, and finding meaning beyond success.

With training from Harvard Business School, Georgetown University, and 16 years as a military officer, I know firsthand the hidden challenges that drive successful people and the isolation that often comes with achievement.

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The Hidden Cost of Wealth

Success has a darker side that no one talks about

You're respected. You're wealthy. You’re admired.

But what the world doesn’t see is the price you paid:

Strained family relationships
Chronic burnout masked as “drive”
Emotional numbness you can’t explain
Spiritual disconnection despite luxury
A constant undercurrent of fear, guilt, or emptiness

With all you've achieved and the great things you've done for your family and humanity, you deserve to finally feel whole—mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually.

Why Traditional Methods Don't Work For You

They don’t understand the mindset of a relentless high achiever

Therapists treat trauma, but don’t understand wealth dynamics
Coaches push performance, but ignore your pain
Advisors protect assets, but not your inner world

You don’t need another productivity plan.

You need to feel safe in your success—and that starts by healing the trauma that drove you to high achievement.

You Want RESULTS. Point. Blank. Period.

I am a RESULTS oriented Advisor who knows firsthand the mindset of a relentless high achiever driven by the fear of failure.

Therapy approaches fail high achievers because it's passive, open-ended, and frankly, it takes too long to solve a problem. That’s not my style.

Winners like to WIN and rarely want to slow down to fix "peripheral" issues for the fear of losing momentum. But when you can no longer ignore an issue, whether it's health, relationships, or family, you want it resolved as quickly as possible and with the least amount of effort or distraction from your goals, so you can get back to winning.

My methods are designed for the high achiever who is always ON. I provide an open, non-judgmental, and trusted space to explore what's stopping you from achieving your desired outcomes. Then, look for ways to make the smallest adjustment to get the quickest resolution (80/20 Pareto principle). My unique approach leads to:

More inner peace and overall satisfaction with life
Better mental and physical health (most clients lose at least 15lbs which can be attributed to emotional eating)
Increased productivity
Better relationships with family and friends
An understanding of your purpose and why you are here in this lifetime
Increased earning potential without sacrificing the things and people that matter most

Exclusive, Private, and VERY Discreet

High-profile individuals require a different level of confidentiality and flexibility. Having a military background with access to sensitive information, I am conditioned to be discreet and keep secrets. Even with 100 testimonials on LinkedIn, that's only 1/4th of the people my work has impacted. I will protect your privacy, meet your unique needs, and I expect to sign an NDA.

My Method: Where Neuroscience Meets Healing and Spiritual Evolution

I combine 25 years of elite leadership advising with my proprietary method of healing from past experiences through Trauma Default®, along with access to a team of spiritual advisors to assist you with:

Neurobiological rewiring
Somatic trauma release
Family relationship restoration
Spiritual reintegration
Wealth identity detox

Letting go of past experiences and things that are no longer serving you allows you to align with your soul's calling and exponentially multiply your capacity for earning more with less effort and less drama.

You’ll feel grounded in who you are and where you're going. You'll reconnect with your inner being and finally feel safe in the wealth you created and your desired life while letting go of the secret nagging voice that says you must work to earn more. You will shift to ALLOWING more to be of greater service to the world..

What Is Trauma Default®?

Trauma Default® is the unconscious response your nervous system built to survive past experiences—but it’s now sabotaging your ability to enjoy what you've earned.

In ultra-wealthy individuals, this looks like:

Hypervigilance over wealth loss or betrayal
Emotional detachment from family or partners
Perfectionism rooted in early emotional neglect
Overachievement as a response to childhood survival patterns
Chronic stress that no luxury can relieve

You’re not broken.

You’ve just outgrown the patterns that built your success.

Outcomes: My Client Experiences

- A $100M government contractor expanded to $500M four months after forgiving her father.

- A property investor closed a $500K deal 24 hours after healing poverty-based scarcity trauma.

- A client secured a $1M real estate partnership after releasing perfectionism rooted in the fear of failure.

Quantified Results

95% improve family and partner relationships (saved 30 marriages)
88% eliminate stress-induced health conditions (reversed conditions in 36 people, including high blood pressure, diabetes, lupus, anxiety, depression, etc)
100% report greater inner peace and reduced fear
92% maintain high performance with less effort

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Exclusive Services for UHNW Individuals

Elite 12-Month Trauma Default® Transformation

Private 1:1. Monthly intensives. Unlimited access.

Outcomes: Full trauma recalibration, relationship repair, discovery of Divine plan, spiritual evolution, forgiveness of past and negative experiences, true inner peace, and wholeness.

Reset & Restore VIP Days

2-Day deep-dive for immediate breakthroughs.

Outcomes: Emotional clarity, identity realignment, relief from burnout, and family dynamics and relationship dysfunctions identified from reactions to Trauma Defaults®.

Safe Harbor Retreats

Private or curated 5–7 day retreats. Luxury. Seclusion. Depth.

Outcomes: Body-mind trauma reset. New legacy blueprint. Burnout relief. Family dynamics and relationship dysfunctions are eased through understanding.

Private Speaking

Invite me to speak at private gatherings, family offices, or UHNW leadership events.

Topics include:

Trauma Default® & Wealth
Healing Generational Pain in Affluent Families
Emotional Security in the Face of Financial Success

Featured in Forbes 4x and by Harvard Business School 2x

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Tasos Kousloglou, CEO - Hotel Division @ Sun Hung Kai Properties Limited

Working with Christy helped me to make significant progress in several key personal development areas such as leadership presence, self-awareness and communication.

During this period, Christy helped me create a strategic plan for my future and set milestones. As a result I have taken greater risks without fear because we explore the pros and cons of different scenarios and then make plans to take action steps.

Having someone who’s been an executive level leader is beneficial because she understands the landscape and how to make better decisions.

Christy taught me to take time to focus on myself by meditating, exercising and eating better which has improved my quality of life at home and at work. It doesn’t take much, but creating new habits are difficult if you don’t have someone who has your best interest in mind.

Balance may not always be possible, but it’s not impossible when you have someone that you can trust to keep you aligned with the success you desire in life. Christy has become a trusted confidant and friend.

Jalisa Johnson, CEO, Virtual Emerging Techonology Solutions

Christy assisted me with significantly improving my quality of life - I improved my executive presence - Learned how to live authentically - Regained my inner peace - took control of things that mattered to me - Grew my business- Focused on my core - Increased my revenue and was able to work smarter and not harder -Started delegating and building my team instead of running a team.

I’m finally living life on my terms. I now have the courage to speak up in meetings instead of just listening. I’m dedicated to doing the work I was born to do and living in my authentic self.

Stella Alamil, VP IIT/CIO Central and Eastern Europe and India

I value Christy’s no-nonsense approach to coaching. She ensures that I answer the right questions to focus on, and more importantly, that I commit to addressing those areas that will fast track my personal and professional development.

Christy has helped me achieve clarity of my bigger purpose and my professional non-negotiables. As a result, I am re-prioritizing my time and energy differently to achieve what I set out to accomplish, while not losing any valuable time away from the people that matter the most.

It takes an impartial leader who has seen, done and still doing it - to provide the right insight to their fellow leaders. Therefore, I trusted Christy - as she can walk the talk – and is committed to seeing her coachees move forward, and upwards.